First of all, I´m going to define the word; a feeling that binds one to a cause.
We have learning about the types of attachment and everything that connects, and now is time to write about it,
I´ve found a page in which say that John Bowlby was the first psicology that use the theory of attachment
I post this photo beacuse, babys need the attachment of their parents. For infants and children, the "objet" of the attachment behavioral system is achieving or maintaining proximity to attachment figures, usually parents.
I´m going to talk about the funtion, features, behaviors and types of attachment.
Funtion:
According to Bowlby's attachment behavior has two basic functions: a biological function, which is to obtain protection to ensure survival, and the other more psychological character, acquiring security. The additional functions are: to provide and regulate the stimulation in quantity and quality, enabling the exploration and learning, promote physical and mental health, promote social development and provide pleasure.
Features:
You strive to maintain proximity to the person being linked
Resisting feeling separation anxiety, desolation and abandonment to the loss
Keep a privileged sensory contact with the attachment figure
Use the attachment figure as a secure base from which to explore the physical and social world
Shelter in the attachment figure in times of sadness, fear or discomfort, looking at her support and emotional wellbeing.
Behaviors:
Signaling behaviors: are what make children so that the attachment figure realizes he wants to start an interaction. Ex .: smile, vocalizations, babbling ...
Aversive behaviors: are signals that are intended to lead to the mother to the child, to finish crying or aggressive behavior of this.
Active behaviors: those that take the child to the mother. Ex .: approximation to the mother up.
Types:
Secure attachment: Occurs in 65% of infants. Babies with this type of attachment explore actively while they are alone with the attachment figure, and can visibly uneasy when separated from her. Often the baby greets the attachment figure with affection when you return, and if you are very restless, try to come into physical contact with her. These babies are sociable with strangers while the mother is present.
Resistant attachment: Occurs in 10% of infants. Babies with this type of attachment try to stay close to the attachment figure and explore little while she is present. Much disturbed when it is running, but when he returns his reaction is ambivalent: it remains in your area, but can resist physical contact with her showing upset by abandonment. Showing extremely cautious with strangers, even in the presence of the attachment figure.
Avoidant attachment: Occurs in 20% of infants. Babies with this type of attachment show little upset when separated from the attachment figure and generally shy away from it when it comes back even try to gain their attention. They tend to be sociable with strangers but can ignore the same way they avoid their attachment figure when he returns.
Disorganized / disoriented attachment: Occurs between 5 and 10% of babies. It is a combination of resistant attachment patterns and avoidant attachment. The baby may appear confusing standing still or approach then abruptly away as the attachment figure is approaching.
This is for me, the key to understand very good the attachment. I´ve found a lot of information, and now i can know the importance of attachment, also many parents should know about this.
Hope you like this small blog that is more theority than others, but is comming a new blog that you will like more!
Wednesday, 24 December 2014
Sunday, 14 December 2014
Are you a full time constructivist? Hell.... no!!!!
I owed Rocio this post, as an elaboration of our discussion in a previous class (we were discussing about epistemology if you remember as an introduction to Piaget theoretical model).
She asked me if I was 100% constructivist and I answered that yes. At least in that moment, I was sincere. However that question continued with me the following days because it was not so clear the answer I had given.
I consider I am constructivist when I see myself as the creator of my own interpretations to the world. Then I am not so much reacting to the world than actively making sense of it. And this is not happening all the time, only when I am aware of me being aware of me and the situation I am into. If I am not aware then I am not acting from a constructivist point of view, but just acting as a realist or empicist one. This may sound strange so I will give an example.
A couple of years ago I was driving in Madrid and got into to a small traffic circle. As I know the general rule that says that you have preference when you are in a traffic circle I took for granted that was the case at that moment. So I didn't stop although a taxi was approaching the traffic circle. I assumed he had to let me pass. The next thing is that the taxi driver began to shout to me, insulting me in a very angry way. He placed the taxi on my right side while he was shouting. My reaction, much more being "right", was to shout him back also in a furious way. We spent ten seconds screaming and insulting each other. Then suddenly I realized the nonsense of the situation. It was as if I could see the whole situation from outsided. And frankly it didn't worth the risk. Fortunately nothing serious had really happen so what reason we had of being so angry? So I just calmed down and watched the taxi driver shouting to me even more desperate than before. I probably had a smile in my face while I watched at him, smiling because of the stupid situation. Of course I still thought I was right, so what reason I had to discuss? Anyway I was aware of my assumption at that point and decided I had to verify if I was right or wrong. But at that moment the main point was to finish the situation, much more because the taxi driver still was shouting and insulting me angrier than ever. So as he expected I was going to go on straight on through a main street I changed fast my direction taking another street on my right (he was already in front of me at that moment) so I could miss him. After four hours when I was again driving in the part of Madrid close to my home I went to the traffic circle to verify that the taxi driver was right. I had a give way sign I had ignored completely. However neither him nor me were right of loosing our own's control.
This brief story exemplifies my point. Only when I realized about the situation and my understanding of it I became a constructivist, but not before. I was subjected to my unconscious interpretation of the situation (I was right and he had to give me the way) and reacting to that in a violent way, because not only I was right, even more I had to bear his insults and screams. No this is funny (or not) but it could have had worse consequences.
So in conclusion I am constructivist depending on the extent I am aware of myself in relation to others and the whole situation I live. And this does not happen all the time.
Thanks Rocío for giving me this time to reflect on this.
Bye
Alejandro
About Robert Kegan's model of development
As we are going to be dealing with Kegan's model, and I am afraid that we are running out of time, I've been working these days on this video. It summarizes and simplifies his theory stated in his 1994 book "In over our heads".
I hope we will have time to discuss some of his ideas during our last session next wednesday.
Anyway, I want to warn a couple of things regarding this video. I disagree with the connection the author does between every order of consciousness and age. That connection is not so simple and evident at all. Most of adults never get beyond a third order of consciousness according to Kegan's studies. So it doesn't matter if you become old. You are not going to get a higher order of consciousness just because of that. It will depend on how do you manage and make meaning from your life experiences.
In addition to this most adolescents are probably in between second and third order of consciousness as most adults are in between third and fourth order of consciousness,although some of them could stay at second one. Besides the context will influence our behavious in the sense that in good conditions we can work in a higher level and in weak conditions we will probably will act below our real possibilities.
After watching the video if you want to know more about Kegan's theory you can review these slides.
I will try to pose an example in order to explain this in a following post.
Now this is the video.
Saturday, 6 December 2014
Creating attachment
Since last
year, I teach two little children. Nico was five years all and his sister, Laura,
was nine. At first, they looked at me with uncertainties, do not sure if they
can trust me or not. I used to take them home from school and teaching them
English, I was trying to be close to them too.
Nico, the
young brother, started creating attachment quickly than his sister. He started
by holding my hand, or showing me little things, his “treasures”, when leaving
school. He used to trust me little by little, until he took me more confidence
and he asked me lots of questions about everything, my life, what I was doing,
what I was studying... And I answered all his questions.
What did
happen and I didn't realize until it was too late? Laura, his sister, began to
be jealous. She thought I prefer her brother rather than her. She didn’t see
all my efforts to be close to her, she only saw that Nico had created some kind
of attachment with me and she wanted it too. But Laura is a very locked and
proud girl. She always challenged my authority and rarely let me get close to
her. I was really worried, Laura was a very tough little person to deal with.
Who would
have thought that the solution would be so simple? Well, not so simple, but
very effective in these moment and the months after. It was Christmas, my
mother told me “Beatriz, you should give something to the children, thus Laura
may like it and she could see you from another point of view. And perhaps, even
if it sounds silly, it can make you closest”.
I followed
my mother advice and it worked. After this experiment, I could say that both
mothers and chocolate are the solution to everything. At least the huge
majority of things.
I give some
chocolate to them, and surprisingly it worked. Nico increased attachment he felt for me. So did
Laura, but she felt another type of attachment. She was closest, but she didn’t
trust me at all. And I didn’t realize about it until this year.
It has been
over a year since that day we met each other. And Nico has created a very strong
attachment for me, he needs my approval when he does things right, he tell me
all the things he consider important to him, and so on. One thing very
interesting is that he needs to be in touch, always close to me, holding my hand,
sitting right next to me or sharing some confidential words or little secrets.
He is only six years old, but I’m sure he has a secure attachment.
Instead, I
think Laura has an insecure attachment. This year, when I started to teach them
again, it was like we were two perfect strangers. The attachment we created
last year had been lost; I couldn't found it. Laura was once more distant,
defiant, so far away from me…
One again I
need to start from zero and create again attachment between us. It isn’t easy;
Laura doesn’t make it easy at all. I think she needs more tests and
demonstrations to trust someone. In my opinion, her defensive character is an
indicator of an elusive or insecure character. I’m still working with her,
creating again attachment, and hoping that, when the school course finish, this
time the attachment between us will last till next year.
Summary of the first unit of Developmental Psychology
DRAWING
DEVELOPMENT
Here we have some examples:
Each of us made the draw in a different way. Studying them, we conclude
that they could be divided in many diverse types. But we saw later that there
were two types that were more important: draws without end and draws with ends,
which are cyclical. We saw that these types of draws had interest all cultures
all around the world.
Apart from that, we can divide the draws in these categories:
-For the content: abstract,
industrial evolution, life cycle, intellectual, stages, physical development…
-Lineal or cyclical, dynamic or static, continuous or discontinuous,
individual or contextual…
-For the representation of development:
Dynamic process (phases, different stages), image more or less
"static" (product).
-By the focus of development:
individual, individual and their context…
The predominant category is development
represented linearly. We can divide the linear model in:
-How temporarily covers the development?
From birth to maturity or from birth to death.
-Where is development going? Up, ascending; down, descending; first up, then down, rise and decline;
forward and unidirectional; forward or backward, bidirectional; forward but
with multiple alternatives.
- How does
development happen? Continuous or discontinuous.
There also exists the circular model: The individual is part of a circle of consecutive generations and is nested
in a system (family ecosystem), in which it interacts.
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE AGE?
Other topic that we studied is the broad concept of the age.
We can find a lot of definitions of that because of its complexity and its
applications. The age is the duration of some things, for example, the period
in the time that a person, animal or vegetable has lived.
The years are the instrument of measure that are provided by the months,
weeks, days, hours and seconds. But it is more complex than this, in some
situations the age is given depending on the grade of development,
independently of the time.
It is here, with this point of view, where appear different kinds of age,
based on all the factors that surround the object of the studio. These types
are:
-Biological: the age of our bodies and
the objective age.
-Subjective: the age that we feel we had.
-Functional: the age that seems we had.
-Social: the age related to the
individual in the society and how is our behaviour.
In class: The teacher explain us this with a simple but direct example. We
had to complete the spaces of some sentences with a number; this number was the
age that we think we had in each context.
With this activity, we realised that we can have more than one age, because
all of them are different.
Then, the teacher suggested completing some sentences about our perception
of the age and things related to that.
In our opinion it was a great idea for understanding and reflects about the
age and ourselves.
Example:
ORTHOGENETIC PRINCIPLE AND EPIFENESIS
Epigenesis consists that the structure shape is built by building process
itself, instead of coming due.
With the orthogenic principle we've learned that development is originated
form its precedent, this means, that we create new content completely different
from itself. Every process step creates the conditions for the next one and it
is irreversible.
Thanks to this principle we've learned how we can achieve to more complex
systems from a simpler unit and though a development. One example could be the
schemes systems, they started from a simple structure, and it turned little by
little in a a much more elaborated one.
CHANGE
When we talk about change in development we are talking about the changes
in development through time.
There are different tipes of change: variational change and
transformational change. In variational change, the change is gradual and
irreversible, it gets better from the average. In transformational change, the
change is in the structure of the system and it leads to a complex structure.
Change can also be continuous or discontinuous depending on this we can be
talking about stages if it is discontinuous or lineal if it’s continuous.
This change depends on the influences that we received and the interest
that we have in each moment of our lives. For example when we are talking about
interests the most interest of a kid can be playing but when he grows up and
becomes a teenager his interest change, so interest change through time and so
does development because development is linked to your interest and influences.
Also, we talked about changes. First, we have variational change, which
is a quantitative and qualitative change, individual and group differences that
define a particularity, a change movement from one side to the other. It gives
us stability and continuity. We can represent variational changes by “time
cycles”.
Example os Variational Change:
Secondly, we have transformational change, which has the following
characteristics; it’s a pattern or organization change, a morphologic change,
emergency of novelty, increasing complexity, sequence of universal patterns
that define a way or trajectory. We can represent transformational changes by
“time arrows”. An example to explain this change could be embryological changes
or the change from the symbolic thought to reflexive symbolic one.
Example os Transformational Change:
Apart from that, we talked about what is more important for us in our
lives. The teacher explained that as time goes by, we give more importance
to things that maybe in the past weren’t. He gave us the following factors:
love, family, school, friends, reflection and health. We can see, for example,
that when we’re young, we give more importance to school than to reflection,
which increase as we get older. Moreover, I want to remark the important role
that love lays in our lives. It’s the most constant factor.
TRANSIT, TRANSFER AND TRANSFORMATION
We also have learnt the different stages of developing that could be
applied for many cases in life.
The exercise consisted in drawing a line of life with our most important
moments, both good and bad, and then, we had to compare these moments with the
tree process, transit, transfer and transformation. For making this exercise
easier and in a deeply way, we went out of class and with two or the
classmates, we had to tell the moments aloud and at the same time we had to
walk in every step we made, so at this way we could appreciate the tree process
better:
-Transit is the whole movement,
without stops, it is represented by the walk.
-Transfer is every step we make
while we are walking along. It is a change but not a qualitative one.
-Transformation is a big and
important change which tell us that there is a before and after, it is
represented by a jump. It is a qualitative change.
We made another exercise to see the three steps again but by our own
experience. We went out of class and experimented the changes by passing
through doors, crossing the gateway, going into the café, etc. And then we
realized that the whole movement has these three stages that could be applied
in many situations.
DEDUCTION, INDUCTION AND ABDUCTION
Inference is essential to, and part of, being human. Inferences are not
random. There are three kinds of reasoning: Deduction, induction, and
abduction, are three basic forms of inference in everybody.
Deduction is the reasoning that
parts of the general towards the specific conclusions. However, this definition
is incomplete because, from the logical point of view, a valid deductive
reasoning is that which guarantees that the conclusion is apparent from the
premises or conclusively that these imply the conclusion.
Induction is the type of inference
from particular premises claiming that two or more members of a group have a
property to conclude, with probability, that all members of this group also
have it.
While the conclusion of a
deductive argument is supposed to be certain, the truth of the conclusion of an
inductive argument is supposed to be probable, based upon the evidence given.
The term “abduction” was coined by
Charles Sanders Peirce in his work on the logic of science. He introduced it to
denote a type of non-deductive inference that was different from the already
familiar inductive type. Abductive reasoning is a form of logical inference
that goes from an observation to a hypothesis that accounts for the
observation, ideally seeking to find the simplest and most likely explanation.
In abductive reasoning, unlike in deductive reasoning, the premises do not
guarantee the conclusion. One can understand abductive reasoning as
"inference to the best explanation".
Three Kind of Inference:
Example:
SCAFFOLDING
In education, scaffolding refers
the support given during the learning process.
The term itself offers the
relevant descriptive metaphor: teachers provide successive levels of temporary
support that help students reach higher levels of comprehension and skill
acquisition that they would not be able to achieve without assistance.
These supports are gradually removed as
students develop autonomous learning strategies, thus promoting their own
cognitive, affective and psychomotor learning skills and knowledge.
Scaffolding is like when you
build a building and you need scaffolding in construction or when someone
breaks his leg and you need crutches. Are things that help you in the process
but when the product is finished, the scaffolding disappears.
Beatriz Alonso, Lucía Cavero, Lucía Moreno, María Matilla, María Cordero, Rocío González, Miriam Sánchez and Sara García.
Tuesday, 2 December 2014
Secondary topics about the session of 2nd of December
Hello
If you want to read more about some of the topics we were discussing today I recommend the following links:
Here you can read about the Kegan's quote I mentioned (about the cake). I will look for the original quote. I had to translate it from his book "The evolving self" (1982).
And here I recommend you read this post written by John McWhirter as an example of intervening in order to promote the transition from a preoperational stage to a operational one. I addition to it I also wrote a post seven years ago reflecting on this same matter. I think it would be appropriate for you reading it too.
If you read all this you should have many new ideas about this transition on becoming a logical concrete thinker.
But if you want to reconnect again with what meant to be more preoperational then I suggest you review the following video.
Comments are welcome ;)
If you want to read more about some of the topics we were discussing today I recommend the following links:
Here you can read about the Kegan's quote I mentioned (about the cake). I will look for the original quote. I had to translate it from his book "The evolving self" (1982).
And here I recommend you read this post written by John McWhirter as an example of intervening in order to promote the transition from a preoperational stage to a operational one. I addition to it I also wrote a post seven years ago reflecting on this same matter. I think it would be appropriate for you reading it too.
If you read all this you should have many new ideas about this transition on becoming a logical concrete thinker.
But if you want to reconnect again with what meant to be more preoperational then I suggest you review the following video.
Comments are welcome ;)
Sunday, 30 November 2014
ATTACHMENT
The attachment is the
special affective bond that children establish with one or more people related
to the familiar system. This inspires to
look for the proximity and the contact with them, for obtaining a sensation of
security, physical and psychological comfort.
Following this
definition, we can find four types of attachment in people:
¯ Secure: high satisfaction, intimate and commitment.
¯ Worried: dissatisfaction, fear to neglect and necessity of approval.
¯ Avoidant: distrust in others and priority in the goals.
The attachment is
very important in the classroom for keep the attention and respect of kids.
Also, this bond is inevitable because we tend to create affective bonds with
the people that we use to treat for our social context.
Moreover for this
child the bond is stronger than one of adults and it is created before. When
kids don`t have this leading figure, they feel unprotected because they are
dependents of an adult. For example, in their houses, this adults use to be the
parents and in school, the teachers.
Each person have
different type of attachment that depend on ourselves, our personal experiences
and the context in we live and develop. In this way, the knowledge of the attachment
in each individual helps us to understand the reactions and know how to respond.
We think that most of
the subjects of our degree are related and this provides a more concrete and
deeper knowledge.
In the classes appears
a relation based in attachment between teacher and student and among students. This relationship also can help teachers for knowing how to work in class, for example if the teacher has to form groups, it´s important to follow some rules and the majority of them are given by the knowledge of the attachment in kids.
Wednesday, 26 November 2014
Love through eye contact ?
I received a whatsapp with this video, I think that is very interesting because it talks about the first impressions and it says that you can feel to other person seeing him/her at the eyes during a time.
In my opinión is so abstract because I think that feelings can´t be adquire in a few time, but this is only my opinión, take a look at the video and you, ll have your own opinión.
Monday, 24 November 2014
Attachment and ball pens
Last week we were working in groups, we were discusing about the activity of the texts about diferents attachments, when suddenly the teacher said " I have a present for you" .. in that moment II thought that it had to be an exam, I was sure.
But when the teacher caught a bag with ball pens and he said that we have to catch one of them I thought that only could be a trap or an experiment.
When he gave us a the pen, I saw that he didn´t give pens at some of my partners, it was very suspicious for me, although my theory about an exam wasn´t a good theory.
Later when the teacher said "Give me the ball pens", I thought that it was an experiment or in the
class could have a camera recording the activity and our reactions about the activity of the pens.
He said that we had to continue with the activity of the texts, but afterwards he returned with the bag and the ball pens, but now it was not the same, now we could to choose if we wanted the pen or not.
In my case i said no, because I didn´t have any confidence with the teacher and all the situation seemed an experiment.
Now in this moment I think about that and I remember my behaviour, I think that I had that suspicious attachment in the ball pens activity because I always have had a lot of teachers in my life that they said that they had a surprise or a present for us and that present was an exam or were excercises to do in hollidays or every type of academic punishment.
In conclusión the positive note of this activity is that it made me reflect about my behaviour and attachment, and the negative note is that I don´t have black pen yet.
But when the teacher caught a bag with ball pens and he said that we have to catch one of them I thought that only could be a trap or an experiment.
When he gave us a the pen, I saw that he didn´t give pens at some of my partners, it was very suspicious for me, although my theory about an exam wasn´t a good theory.
Later when the teacher said "Give me the ball pens", I thought that it was an experiment or in the
class could have a camera recording the activity and our reactions about the activity of the pens.
He said that we had to continue with the activity of the texts, but afterwards he returned with the bag and the ball pens, but now it was not the same, now we could to choose if we wanted the pen or not.
In my case i said no, because I didn´t have any confidence with the teacher and all the situation seemed an experiment.
Now in this moment I think about that and I remember my behaviour, I think that I had that suspicious attachment in the ball pens activity because I always have had a lot of teachers in my life that they said that they had a surprise or a present for us and that present was an exam or were excercises to do in hollidays or every type of academic punishment.
In conclusión the positive note of this activity is that it made me reflect about my behaviour and attachment, and the negative note is that I don´t have black pen yet.
But when does the magical journey of consciousness begin? Consciousness requires a sophisticated network of highly interconnected components, nerve cells. Its physical substrate, the thalamo-cortical complex that provides consciousness with its highly elaborate content, begins to be in place between the 24th and 28th week of gestation. Roughly two months later synchrony of the electroencephalographic (EEG) rhythm across both cortical hemispheres signals the onset of global neuronal integration. Thus, many of the circuit elements necessary for consciousness are in place by the third trimester. By this time, preterm infants can survive outside the womb under proper medical care. And as it is so much easier to observe and interact with a preterm baby than with a fetus of the same gestational age in the womb, the fetus is often considered to be like a preterm baby, like an unborn newborn. But this notion disregards the unique uterine environment: suspended in a warm and dark cave, connected to the placenta that pumps blood, nutrients and hormones into its growing body and brain, the fetus is asleep.
Invasive experiments in rat and lamb pups and observational studies using ultrasound and electrical recordings in humans show that the third-trimester fetus is almost always in one of two sleep states. Called active and quiet sleep, these states can be distinguished using electroencephalography. Their different EEG signatures go hand in hand with distinct behaviors: breathing, swallowing, licking, and moving the eyes but no large-scale body movements in active sleep; no breathing, no eye movements and tonic muscle activity in quiet sleep. These stages correspond to rapid-eye-movement (REM) and slow-wave sleep common to all mammals. In late gestation the fetus is in one of these two sleep states 95 percent of the time, separated by brief transitions.
What is fascinating is the discovery that the fetus is actively sedated by the low oxygen pressure (equivalent to that at the top of Mount Everest), the warm and cushioned uterine environment and a range of neuroinhibitory and sleep-inducing substances produced by the placenta and the fetus itself: adenosine; two steroidal anesthetics, allopregnanolone and pregnanolone; one potent hormone, prostaglandin D2; and others. The role of the placenta in maintaining sedation is revealed when the umbilical cord is closed off while keeping the fetus adequately supplied with oxygen. The lamb embryo now moves and breathes continuously. From all this evidence, neonatologists conclude that the fetus is asleep while its brain matures.
When "It draws its first breath, wakes up and begins to experience life"?
Relationship
Good afternoon to everyone!
At the weekend, I´ve heard a conversation between Gloria and Alejandro, the last one, and it affects to me, so that because I´m going to write here.
I heard twice and I realised the importance of a relation with the teacher and the pupil. Also the role is very important here. The role affects to you because of the enviorenment, the society, and the most important thing that is , you grow up and you change everything: your points of view, your physical and psychological etc.
Later, I don´t understand this phrase that you tell and is: You´re independent of your role. I know that I´m María López Agredano but I change because of my role.
At the weekend, I´ve heard a conversation between Gloria and Alejandro, the last one, and it affects to me, so that because I´m going to write here.
I heard twice and I realised the importance of a relation with the teacher and the pupil. Also the role is very important here. The role affects to you because of the enviorenment, the society, and the most important thing that is , you grow up and you change everything: your points of view, your physical and psychological etc.
Later, I don´t understand this phrase that you tell and is: You´re independent of your role. I know that I´m María López Agredano but I change because of my role.
I also know and I´m agree with you, that is, to suck up to the teacher. I can´t believe that pupil with 18 years old up to know, continue doing that. For my point of view, If you want to have a good relation or have good results, you only have to be what you are not what you liked to be. This is connect with the role. I think the role changes you but in a good sense. It construct you a better person, because you decide with your role if something is good or not. When you notice that you change is because you´re growing up and making you a better person.
Also with your role, you can going down , in this sense, you can change into a bad person, but that is the key if you´re maturing or not.
Comming back to the subject of the relation teacher-pupil, I think that the role is very important in this relationship. If you´re maturing to be a good person and also growing up , even if you are a teacher or a pupil you can´t go so up and becomes in a "witch." because you can´t forget that you have to teach pupil that one gropu understand at first and another ones that understand at second or third.
Summing up I would like to say that, even your growing up you can´t put more taller of what you are. You have to teach at same to everyone and the pupil have to respect the teacher that he/she haves. Because i don´t think the problem is the person, is the respect that someone have and also the role,that why is very important the decision that someone takes with the role, even if the role in that moment is good or not.
Sunday, 23 November 2014
About pens...
Some days ago, Alejandro made an experiment with us.
We were talking in groups about attachment, when suddenly, Alejandro said that we were his best class, so he has bought a present for us. I was a little shocked... we were his favourite class?! I didn't belive that but I decided trust him.
Then, every one chose a pen. Pens were of all the colours, somo red, others black, green, blue, and there were some with all the colours in one!! I chose the black one...
After that, we continued working and talking about how nice had been Alejandro, but some minutes later, he talked again, and now it was completily different; He said that he used to be a liar, and those pens aren't for us, so we returned the pens to him.
In my group everyone was talking about this... is it an experiment for us?, are we Alejandro's laboratory rats?, has it an objective? and... what is the objective?... all were questions.
I felt sad when he did that, and a little confused.
After maybe, ten minutes, Alejandro spoke again, now he said that pens really were for us, so we had to chose them again... I chose it because I'm a educated person but, there were some people that cought none.
Next, until the class was finished I got confused. I dindn't know if Alejandro was lying this time or if the pen was mine now.
Conclusion:
I think Alejandro did this experiment for that we can feel what we think when we have something that is our and then, somebody removes it.
I think that pens were a good choice because it's something with not much value, so it didn't affect us so much like if instead of pens it were be an animal or something special.
We were talking in groups about attachment, when suddenly, Alejandro said that we were his best class, so he has bought a present for us. I was a little shocked... we were his favourite class?! I didn't belive that but I decided trust him.
Then, every one chose a pen. Pens were of all the colours, somo red, others black, green, blue, and there were some with all the colours in one!! I chose the black one...
After that, we continued working and talking about how nice had been Alejandro, but some minutes later, he talked again, and now it was completily different; He said that he used to be a liar, and those pens aren't for us, so we returned the pens to him.
In my group everyone was talking about this... is it an experiment for us?, are we Alejandro's laboratory rats?, has it an objective? and... what is the objective?... all were questions.
I felt sad when he did that, and a little confused.
After maybe, ten minutes, Alejandro spoke again, now he said that pens really were for us, so we had to chose them again... I chose it because I'm a educated person but, there were some people that cought none.
Next, until the class was finished I got confused. I dindn't know if Alejandro was lying this time or if the pen was mine now.
Conclusion:
I think Alejandro did this experiment for that we can feel what we think when we have something that is our and then, somebody removes it.
I think that pens were a good choice because it's something with not much value, so it didn't affect us so much like if instead of pens it were be an animal or something special.
Friday, 21 November 2014
MODULE 2 ATTACHMENT
During the last weeks
in class we have been learning the meaning of attachment, the first thing I
would like to capture is a definition that seems very successful of attachment,
María José Cantero defined Attachment as "the bond or bond you are
established between two people as a result of interaction and leads them to
maintain proximity and contact in achieving safety, comfort, and protection.
"
First we
did was an introductory class with Gloria which she asked us questions like:
who would you go to a doctor or a cruiser, and then with a serie of adjectives,
we had to define our mother, with other adjectives to us and compare them, I
think it was a class to make us think about our attachment, then we did some
tests in class to approach the different attachments, see if you identify with
one and also to begin to get used to using these types of tests as they are
widely used in schools .
Having made these
introductory sessions, we saw a video with several children to see about their
attachments, then the teacher explained us one by one, this is important
because we need to know all types of attachment and in the video we can see it
very well. We also did an exercise in which we put a photo and we had to say
that we thought that had happened and what would happen next, it is important
because according to the attachment of each one, we imagine one thing or
another and it is necessary to know well when we are in school to know the
children, whether they have a problem, for example if they are mistreated.
Finally we were
watching some texts with different attachment patterns and then comment on
them, and to see how they get this kind of attachment ... it is important to
know not only how to define it, besides to know how to recognize it in people...
while we were doing this activity the teacher did with us a experiment with
some pens, to see how we felt when someone gives something and then we take it
away or lose it, although it is not comparable with the loss of a family
member, the process is the same.
In my opinion to know
and to learn to recognize the different kind of attachments is fundamental for
our future profession, to know the children, but also to consider as important
the new module, the cognitive development.
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